Thursday 26 September 2013

South Bombay Sojourn With A Lawyer

 The clock struck 11 and Virat stepped out of his room ready to meet a 'friend', of whom he had caught only cursory glances on his occasional trips back home. The 'friend' Virat was going to meet was Vipul. The record in Virat's mind relating to Vipul showed him as a confident boy, possessing the skill set required to become a top-shot lawyer, which was his chosen career path.
The next hour was spent by Virat in listening to his parents on what to do and what not to do over the course of the day. After returning from his weekly temple visit, he set out towards Andheri Station, to board the train to Churchgate.
The train journey was quite uneventful. None of the usual attractions; Stampede like situation,uncles sleeping while standing,people hanging on to the train with a single hand, were visible on that day. Virat alighted from the train and dialled Vipul's number.
They planned to meet just outside the train station. As Virat waited for Vipul to join him, he looked around to catch his first glimpse of South Bombay. There was the government Law College at a stone's throw. Smartly dressed people, mostly in their 20s could be seen thronging the place. Finally, Vipul arrived. The style might not have been filmy like Ajay Devgan balancing himself on two bikes or Shahrukh running after alighting from a helicopter, but the personality was no less. Dressed in a perfectly fitting shirt and jeans, he walked towards Virat. The background music of Tashann would have fitted perfectly with the situation.
Vipul was pressed for time and he decided to squeeze in a short sight-seeing trip around the area before proceeding to eat.
They boarded a taxi and Vipul began his discourse on the place. His description style would have given any guide a run for his money. In a short span of time he showed Virat the Kala Ghoda area, the Colaba causeway, The Taj, The Oberoi, The Trident, Antilla – Mukesh Ambani's residence, and Marine Drive. Vipul had a crisp description regarding each place with personal experiences relating to some places also being thrown in to make certain places more interesting.
Following the 'sight seeing on wheels', Vipul asked Virat to choose from three types of food: Italian, Indian and Chinese. Virat, a great stickler for home made food, would have any day preferred Indian food but Vipul's mesmerizing company and the desire to continue being surprised that day, made him choose Italian.
The place chosen was Relish. After a five minute wait (which according to Vipul had stretched to 30 minutes on previous occasions during rush hours in the evenings) they were allotted a table in the restaurant.
Ordering food was going to be another uphill task for Virat because for him Italian food had till now only comprised pizzas and pastas. He gladly aksed Vipul to do the honours for him that day. After a few minutes of discussion, they reached a decision to order pizza and lazazos.
While both of them waited for the order to be served, Virat mentioned if it was easy for Vipul to find Punjabi's around him. This triggered one of the most entertaining and intellectually stimulating impromptu speeches Virat had heard in a long time.
Vipul began by letting out a few bruaahs!! in a quick succession which is the trademark of Punjabis. He started, "I am not here to do this. If I have to carry Punjab along with me, then I rather stay back there rather than coming here. I have to leave the white Kurta Pajamas behind and only then can I move forward. Mumbai is full of people from all accross India; Gujaratis,Marwaris, Sindhis, Muslims etc. It is imperative that I learn from them what exactly were the factors that contributed to them making it big here. Only when we understand the reasons behind their success can we hope to replicate them."
He then proceeded to explain different qualities possessed by Mumbaikars and Punjabis. In matters of heart, it was Punjabis who won hands down but in a lot of other aspects it was Mumbaikars who took home the glory.
Even as the discussion was going on, food was served. Vipul advised Virat to eat lasazos first putting the tagline "Tastes best when served hot" to drive home his point.
Virat obliged and he was really happy for having ordered lazazos. As both the guys filled their tummies, discussion moved on to mundane matters; Virat's company, what it did, work culture, his accomodation and the usual 'meeting after a long time' interrogation style questions. Virat gladly answered all of them.
Soon, the food finished and it was time to go. Their was a brief tussle over who would be paying the bill, which Vipul eventually won.
As both of them walked towards Marine Drive, the time for both of them to part drew closer. Vipul had greatly impressed Virat with the huge change in his personality.

As they took different roads, Virat secretly promised himself that he would be meeting this guy more often, because meeting people like Vipul gave him the motivation of aiming for even bigger successes in life.

Wednesday 25 September 2013

Mumbai - The First Outing


INTRODUCTION

Date: June 16,2013
As I landed at the Mumbai airport and took in the sights offered by the City of Dreams I secretly made up my mind, that I would discover everything the city had to offer.

Two months passed and what did I manage to discover – the long lonely hours software professionals spend in front of computer screens, the girls dressed to thrill and as impossible to get as they were during your IIT days, the obscene real estate prices and the easy way in which brokers earned about half your month's salary for a few days of work.

However, this is not the time for these philosophical rants and I might as well proceed with my initial plan of discovering Mumbai.

Exactly two months later on August 16, 2013 I get to know that Gaurav, a friend I had made during my internship was in town. A quick phone call was exchanged and we decided to meet the next day. We also wanted to meet God that day. So, we agreed to meet at the SiddhiVinayak Temple.

Scene1:The Temple (where the rural GOD resides)

As the city awoke from its slumber on August 17, 2013 I put on my best dress and stepped out. Today was going to be a day of many firsts. More specifically, I planned to travel by the (in)famous Mumbai local. It is often dubbed as the lifeline of Mumbai, and once you travel by them you won't be asking why.
In the local you get pushed, pulled, grabbed and abused so many times that your best dress no longer remains the best and your peace of mind is in pieces. Any organisation offering meditation courses in Mumbai must start with the Railway stations here.

Anyways, I got down at Dadar and after a 10 minute walk reached our meeting point. As I called my friend, I discovered that he was running an hour late. I leisurely had the lunch packed for me by the cook. Finally Gaurav arrived with two of his own friends and we proceeded towards the temple gates.

Ignoring the repeated pleas of adjoining shopkeepers to take of  our bags and shoes (in return for buying prasad) we entered the temple gate. We took off our shoes and bags at the temple management provided counter. As we proceeded towards the chamber housing God, we were surrounded by devotees from all sides. Finally, we managed to get a glimpse of God's statue and I feverishly began reciting my wishlist. After convincing myself that my ten rupee offering would fast-track my requests we sat in the adjoining area with the other devotees.

Everybody was staring at somebody. We followed suit. The few minutes of staring around bore fruit and I discovered some murtis present there. I dashed towards them and repeated my wish list again. I suppose, more repetitions should definitely increase the probability of a wishlist being fulfilled.

After having the mahaprasad we moved on to our next destination, the Mahalaxmi Temple. This time the visit was quicker. We went inside in groups of two (the other two guarding the footwear). We climbed a few flight of stairs to reach the temple entrance, toured the temple premises (spotting a lot of foreign tourists on the way) and made our way back.

Having completed our religious quota of the day, we visited the nearby market and an expo that had some really stunning furniture on display. I mentally made a note to buy a lot of that stuff when I would grow rich. Before saying goodbye to Gaurav we decided to spend a few hours in the Oberoi Mall at Goregaon.

Scene2: The Mall (where the urban GOD resides)

As usual, the mall was bustling with activity.

From sarees to spaghetti tops, sandals to stilettos, simple to sleek, everything was visible under one roof. The sight of people freshly decked up was quite contagious and our first destination on entering the mall was the washroom, where we styled our hair for a good five minutes.

We walked the length and breadth of the mall for the next two hours. The restaurants and fast food joints were beckoning us with dazzling lighting arrangements and hoardings that promised mouth watering food; Louis Vuitton and Gucci stores seemed to be aiming at two targets with one arrow, the gorgeous models were attracting the males while the accessories they were holding were irresistible for any women.

Above all, it was the people who caught our attention the most. Be it the 60 year old uncle holding his much younger wife's (?) hands and gazing romantically into her eyes or the toddlers crying hoarse to convince their dads to buy them toys or a young woman snatching her husband/boyfriend's purse and telling him that she was fed up of his miserly ways or a man being told by his wife that she couldn't live with his parents anymore. Each incident was pretty unique and brought out a different feeling. Smile. Tears. Sympathy. Disgust.

Finally, we got tired of watching our possible futures and decided to fill ourselves up. Cafe Coffee Day was our unanimous choice. It was here we spent the next few hours before we parted ways to proceed for our homes. We began talking. And. Observing. The troubled thoughts from our past, the dull and monotonous present and our aspirations for the future were laid thread bare. Meanwhile the world around us continued to amaze us. The crowd moving in and out kept us attentive. Some with their weight. Rest, with their gait.

No wonder, the hours breezed by us. We left at around 8 but not before I had completed one of the most enriching days of my Mumbai journey.